This is a very important area where many people get it wrong. If you are being made an offer, then basically you are in the driving seat. You are in a position of strength as you are now wanted and having passed all the interviews, tests, assessments etc. So, if your future employer offers you the position, and the job feels right, ACCEPT it!! You can always turn it down later if there are certain aspects you don’t feel comfortable with. You never know, but they may have a second choice person who will bite their arm off for the opportunity.
Never say:
• I want to think about it
• I need to speak to my Spouse first
• Can I have it in writing first
• What sort of car do I get with the job etc
Always say:
• That sounds excellent! I look forward to the opportunities this position offers.
• I look forward to working with you and being a valuable member of the team.
Or words to that effect. If the job feels right, or you feel 100% about this new role, then the chances are, it is right for you. If you have any doubts, air them there and then. If you have doubts about anything, or not comfortable about certain aspects of the role, then the chances are, it’s not the right job for you. It is important that you think in terms of the future. What are the long term prospects like? It might be an ideal job short term, but is there an opportunity for career progression within this new role? Once you have had confirmation that the job is yours, and have ironed out all the final details, and have mutually decided on joining dates - then you need to look in terms of resigning. Please refer to our section Starting A New Job for the correct process of resigning. There is a right way and wrong way of resigning. Do make sure you spend a bit of time reading up on this section. You do not want to leave on a sour note, nor burn your bridges. If your existing employers say they will ‘leave the door open’ for you to come back some time in the future if you ever wish to – then it speaks volumes about you. It is nice to have something to fall back on if it goes wrong in the future. However, if they counter offer and put more money on the table etc, you need to revisit the reasons why you were not happy in the first place. Don’t get flattered by all the extra attention you might get about why they really want you to stay. Lets face it, they are only thinking of themselves! |